Have You Always Felt Things Deeply? Have you ever felt burnt out faster than those around you? Do you find yourself exhausted time and again, even when you’re “doing everything right”? Perhaps you experience that quiet (or not so quiet) shame because you can’t keep up with life’s pace? I can relate. Empathy is what drew me to this work. As a therapist and a mother, I cherish my sensitivity now. I truly see it as one of my most beautiful traits, but it took me a long time to

When Responsibility Steals Childhood What comes to mind when you think of childhood? I hope when my children look back, they remember feelings of joy, fun, love, connection and above all, play. Play is such a vital part of childhood. It’s how children make sense of their world, test ideas, learn trust, and express creativity. Yet so many underestimate its impact. We rush children to grow up, to prioritise the way we  do things, structure over spontaneity, outcome over curiosi

Understanding Anxiety: When It Becomes a Constant Companion We all feel anxiety, it’s part of being human. Although for some of us, anxiety isn’t just a visitor; it’s a constant companion. We live in a state of hypervigilance, always scanning for what might go wrong. That kind of anxiety can stop us from taking risks, stepping outside, meeting new people, or saying yes to opportunities. It can shrink our world until safety starts to feel like isolation. For many neurodivergen

“He/She’s just attention-seeking.” We’ve all heard that phrase, but it begs the real question: why?  Why would someone feel such...

We’ve all heard the phrase: “People never change.” But neuroscience and lived human experience tell a very different story. Change is not...

Many people think people-pleasing is simply being “too nice.”In reality, it’s often a survival response, deeply rooted in how our nervous system learned to keep us safe.For those living with shame, perfectionism, or the aftermath of narcissistic abuse , people-pleasing can feel almost automatic. And if you’re neurodivergent  (ADHD, autism, or otherwise wired differently), masking and over-responsibility may add another layer of emotional exhaustion. This constant self-silenc

We often think of depression as a “low mood” or a “chemical imbalance.” While those can be true, there’s another way to look at it, one...

First and foremost, I feel it’s important to start by saying the method of therapy matters less than the relationship with the therapist. This is backed up by research, so trust your gut! The one you feel most comfortable and connected with is most likely to help you. It is also notable that most people want the tools until they realise the tools can only take you so far. Imagine you’re trying to fix a wobbly shelf with a screwdriver. You can tighten the screws again and agai